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healthy hedonist flies again

Male (48) looking for Female Portland, Oregon, United States

As to the premise of this site, Im a somewhat high functioning asperger adaptee. Ive had the good fortune to have a couple of lengthy partnerships in the past, but challenges being what we know them to be, Itd be nice to find someone with a little more common ground. I make my way as a violin instructor and performer in Portland, OR. I thrive on lifes pleasures, and love to share them with interesting company, but I have distinct boundaries about those with destructive potential. Im very patient and thoughtful, tempered by diverse experiences, but relish creating unique new collaborations. So much to say, so little space...

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National heritageScottish
BuildAthletic / toned
Height183 cm
Eye ColorDepends on my mood
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthVery long
Facial HairSideburns
Body ArtSecret piercings


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Have PetsCat, Fish

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Job Titleviolin performance/instruction

Leisure & Fun

Favorite TV showsTV is mostly insulting. I watch a lot of film, and love the seminal works of any genre, but am bored by heavy handed melodrama and the simplistic drivel that functions as vehicles for the corp star marketing. Id prefer actual art on the screen.
Favorite booksjack black- 'you cant win' and beaudelaire- 'paris spleen' are on the nightstand, but I used to own and run a bookstore, so the list is too vast.
Idea of funriding bikes around town in funny costumes. Finding my friends G spots. Learning new tricks that help us know each other better. Being loud together, then being quiet together, then being alone, missing each other, getting back together and learning about what we're like when were alone.


Goal in lifeRadical redistribution of wealth. Capitalism is futile and wrong. Cant wait till noones ipoop works and my violin and a campfire will be much more valuable.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
On the first dateHeh, the first thing people do when they meet, is to assess the critical factors that make them compatible. Any first encounter should incorporate a few revealing conversation starters and adequate time to blab exhaustively, followed by creative opportunities for early bonding and future common ground.